I currently have the need to express myself so much.
I'm not quite sure why.
Other than I love the fact that I finally found a platform which is more for me.
Writing, reflecting, sharing, caring. That is more me!
And has always been.
Since I was a little girl, I have written multiple diaries. Bags of them, actually. Which I now, as an adult, carry around, from new home to new home, from basement to basement.
I can't get myself to throw them out.
The bags consist of diaries, of notebooks filled with poems and rhymes – sometimes.
Of drawings.
As an adult, I kept my passion for writing.
I have always created lists of dreams, and goals.
I have written articles for different online blogs and magazines.
I have written two books myself.
Instagram never really did it for me, because I have no talent there – or passion for taking pictures. I love that others are super good at it – and I enjoy following others.
To me, it feels a bit confusing and I never know what to take pictures of – and my pictures are never super aesthetic – so! All of us are different, and that is the perfect thing about everything.
To me, words come super naturally.
Themes just pop up.
And I do enjoy and love to share – because to me; it feels like care.
Care for myself, because I enjoy it, and care for others, because they might enjoy it – and benefit from it as well.
Thank you so much for reading along.
As always; then I will share the past week's reflections here.
I think the theme will be something that spins around love – and trying to navigate in broken love, that healed.
My stomach just flipped.
… and a lot of reflections and questions about being in that spot. In that place.
Wanting to continue healing, in a potential environment, that once caused the stomach to hurt. Why it just flipped.
I hope you can benefit from this letter.
Read along.
Best feeling ever: morning coffee in bed, fresh bed sheets, computer for writing and reading, no need to rush, open windows, birds singing. Time to reflect and develop, to plan and create beautiful destinations. I love life, and life loves me.
Do not search for direction in the fog. Demand clarity.
A woman’s awareness does not make her weak - but strong.
Healthy love is not hidden; it comes openly - it is shown.
Sometimes an insight you have had, can be a catalyst for another woman’s clarity.
That is why I find sharing to be caring.
Energy before evidence.
When your voice carries the frequency of truth.
Something about them made you lean in.
Embodied truth.
When you choose to trust the rhythm of life.
Do you know how extraordinary captivating you are? You are.
On being alluring.
Knowing that your presence is a gift.
True worth doesn’t chase attention - it draws it in.
Her presence spoke for her.
You are responsible for your own growth.
Never apologize for who you are; when you are being honest, kind and whole.
You can not say yes to everything - and still have a powerful no.
What is rare is remembered.
To walk away from relationships that consume more than they contribute.
To protect your fire; not only for you, but also for those who truly needs your warmth.
Your soul knows when it’s being honored - and when it’s being drained.
Your presence must carry weight.
Meaning arrives when it is being wrapped in intention.
An identity that refines itself.
It requires you to become intimate with your desires.
To carry yourself as a reflection of your truth; this is not arrogance but alignment.
She walked with calm, with grace.
It can not be given, it needs to be earned.
To be truly magnetic; you have to be grounding inward.
A calm demand of someone knowing who they are.
Emotional intelligence is not softness, it is the ability to remain calm in the storm.
When we look within; we no longer see confusion, we see clarity.
Quiet certainty.
Silence when chosen; is not retreat. It is mastery.
In silence we find clarity.
When we are not reacting; we begin to see.
In silence we remember what truly matters.
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I just entered a well-known circle—a circle I have spent the past several months healing from. Is this stupidity or bravery if it’s done with consciousness, intention, and boundaries?
The heart is a strong force, and we should listen to it. However, we must not forget our head in the process as well. I choose to lead with my heart and to listen, but my body feels scared of tripping as this circle closes around me. Now I wonder if the heart should be muted and if logic should take precedence.
Is it possible to continue healing in an environment where you once lost yourself?
You decide whether you wish to enter a circle, stay in it, or leave. You hold the power to say yes and no, to protect yourself and ensure you keep aligning. Your peace and happiness are the most important things. I have learned that through walking the path. I promise myself that I won’t ever compromise on that again. I will keep aligning—whatever it takes.
Memory stored in the body.
“So returning to a space where you once lost yourself can be healing — if the heart is guiding and the ego is supporting. If you’re conscious of your boundaries, if your body is being listened to (not overridden), and if you’ve reclaimed your compass, then the return is not regression… it’s reclamation.”
Thank you so much for sharing. 🤍
As always then; near email length limit.
I will continue in the next letter, when I have collected more to share.